In the modern world with its fast pace, sometimes we forget about our loved ones and the most important people who gave us life - our parents. It is a great happiness to have parents or other people effectively acting in their capacity.
The fourth sign of a quality person says how not only "to live a simple and quality life, to love and be loved, to be a son or daughter, to be a father or mother, a grandfather or grandmother, to be a brother or sister, a neighbor and colleague, a patriot of the Motherland."
As for the relationship between parents and children, the daily grind sometimes does not allow us to see our loved ones very often. If we constantly postpone meetings and calls, they may never happen. Parents and we (children) do not live forever, and an illness or an accident can take us away from each other. Therefore, it is necessary to see them more often, communicate, help morally, financially and physically.
Create comfortable conditions for your parents now, do not wait for a certain occasion when your salary increases or the situation in the world changes. Help is needed today, as another moment may not come.
My parents did everything for my brother and me. And I am glad that we managed to do a lot for our father while he was alive. At the same time, we did not live close.
At 17, I left my parents' home and went to Kazan, where I entered the university. After that, I tried to visit my father and mother during the holidays, then during vacations and on weekends. My wife, children and I would come to the village at the first opportunity, help with repairs in the house, build something, and most importantly - we were all together.
After the car accident, I had heart problems and it became more difficult to go to the village to visit my parents. I remember how my father asked me not to come, not to strain myself, to take care of myself. But I could not help but visit them, because my parents were very senior. And then I had a saying: " Either I won't make it there, or they won't live to see me come."
When my father got sick, we were almost always there and looked after him. He has passed away, but I continue taking care of my mom, and I do everything so that she wants to live.
Appreciate the time when your parents are alive. Do not upset them with your actions, do not swear, do not be cross - the tears of parents are a great sin for children. And their health may be very fragile. No argument or quarrel is really worth it.
Try to please your parents, call and visit more often, help them, let them see what virtuous children they raised. This will prolong their life and preserve their health.
Good relations between parents and children are a true value in life. Peace, kindness, prosperity, many years of quality life to you and your loved ones. I would like to express my deepest gratitude to my parents, Chukmarov Adgam Karimovich and Chukmarova Svetlana Abdullovna, who always helped us and took care of us, even when we became independent adults.